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In one's own way: 〜なりに/〜なりの

名詞・普通形 + なりに/なりの + 名詞

X なりに/なりの = “in one's own way, in X's own measure”: acknowledging limits while recognising the effort. Modest about oneself, never about a superior.

In short

〜なりに means “in one's own way, as far as one can”: X has limited abilities or a limited viewpoint, but does what they can at their level. なりの + noun describes a noun (“one's own…”). The construction carries a nuance of modesty or indulgence. それなりに = “more or less, reasonably”. Everyday and written register.

  • 子どもなりに、親のことを心配しているのだ。こどもなりに、おやのことをしんぱいしているのだ。In his own childlike way, he worries about his parents.
  • 私なりに精一杯努力したつもりです。わたしなりにせいいっぱいどりょくしたつもりです。I believe I did my best, in my own way.
  • 値段が高い店には、それなりの理由がある。ねだんがたかいみせには、それなりのりゆうがある。Expensive shops have their reasons for being expensive.

The basics

なり here refers to “the measure, the particular way” of something. X なりに = “within X's limits, as far as X can”. You acknowledge that X has limits (a child, a beginner, oneself), while recognising X's effort or particular logic.

It's a modest construction when talking about yourself (私なりに) and a kindly one when talking about someone younger or weaker.

The sentence, piece by piece
子どもchild
なりにin one's own measure
一生懸命with all one's might
考えたthought

He thought it through as hard as he could, in his own childlike way.

  • noun
  • grammatical form
  • other
  • verb
  • 子どもなりに一生懸命考えた。こどもなりにいっしょうけんめいかんがえた。He thought it through as hard as he could, in his own childlike way.
  • 新人は新人なりに、職場に貢献しようとしている。しんじんはしんじんなりに、しょくばにこうけんしようとしている。Newcomers, at their own level, are trying to contribute to the workplace.

How to form it

なり goes after a noun (without の or だ) or a plain form. For a な-adjective, keep the stem (下手なりに). なりに modifies a verb, なりの modifies a noun.

BeforeConstructionExample
nounnoun + なりに/なりの私なりに, 彼なりの考え
い-adjectiveplain form + なりに狭いなりに, 安いなりの
な-adjectivestem + なりに下手なりに
verbplain form + なりにわからないなりに
fixedそれなりに/それなりのそれなりの結果
  • 下手なりに、毎日楽しく絵を描いている。へたなりに、まいにちたのしくえをかいている。I'm not much good, but I enjoy drawing every day.
  • わからないなりに、最後まで説明を聞いた。わからないなりに、さいごまでせつめいをきいた。Even without understanding it all, I listened to the explanation right to the end.

Modesty and politeness

Because なりに implies limits, it isn't used about a superior: “先生なりに” would suggest the teacher isn't very capable. On the other hand, 私なりに is a very common formula of modesty, and それなりに means “decently, to a reasonable level”.

  • 準備にはそれなりに時間がかかった。じゅんびにはそれなりにじかんがかかった。The preparations took a fair amount of time, as you'd expect.

なりに, らしく, として, ならでは

らしく says “in line with the typical image of X” (子どもらしく遊ぶ: play as a child should). として says “in the capacity of”. ならでは celebrates what only X has. なりに, for its part, acknowledges limits and says “as best one can”.

FormNuanceExample
子どもなりにin one's own measure, despite limits子どもなりに考えた
子どもらしくlike a typical child子どもらしく遊ぶ
子どもとしてas a child (role)子どもとして親を支える
子どもならではのunique to children (praise)子どもならではの発想
  • 子どもならではの自由な発想に驚かされた。こどもならではのじゆうなはっそうにおどろかされた。I was amazed by the free-flowing imagination only children have.

Common mistakes

  • Saying 先生なりに or 社長なりの考え in front of the person concerned: the nuance “despite their limits” becomes insulting.
  • Putting の between the noun and なり: you say 私なりに, not “私のなりに”.
  • Confusing it with らしく: らしく refers to the typical image, なりに to limited means.

7 exercises on this point

Particles to choose, sentences to put back in order, translations: marked straight away, then reviewed at the right time. This JLPT N1 point is on the Kyūshū Line (Values and society) of the Shinkansen.